Gone Burgundy

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A simple inexpensive dress goes a long way. I purchased this burgundy dress at forever 21 for just $15.99. The price was the first reason why I bought this dress, and the second reason that sold me was how comfortable it was and the way I could dress it up. The color was perfect for this Sunday and I added nude sandals from Anne Michelle that I purchased at a thrift store for just $12.99. You can find great things at thrift stores if you are patient enough to search for them. I also added little touches of turquoise with my jewelry that I purchased from H&M for under $10. Just that alone made the dress seem like it was worth more. Be inventive; just because you cannot afford more expensive brands does not mean your outfit cannot be displayed as if it's worth more

Hidden Gem!

Hidden Gem!!!

Last weekend my husband and I went to Cape May for an anniversary getaway. We usually go to Miami to celebrate our anniversary but this time we decided to do something different, and we came across Cape May in New Jersey. The drive from NYC to Cape May was three hours. It was a great little road trip with the hubs; listening to music and having great conversations along the way. The moment we arrived at Cape May we knew we were going to have a great getaway and it was going to be a different experience altogether. We booked The Virginia hotel, which was a real gem. It is a beautiful Victorian house and our room was so lovely. We even had a balcony (perfect for our daily complimentary breakfast). The beach was so beautiful, peaceful, and relaxing. We paid for a beach cabana which was a great idea because we had our own little nook on the beach. I wore my white vintage bathing suit from forever 21 (top 14.99 and high bottoms 14.99) with a blue Kimono from forever 21 (24.99). My first night out we decided to eat at the Ebbitt Room. For the night out I wore wide leg pants from forever21 ($19.99), a crop top also from forever 21 ($9.99) with brown sandals that I bought from H&M ($39.99), and finished the whole look with a tuxedo blazer from H&M ($34.99). This outfit was perfect for the beautiful cool night in Cape May. On our second day we to checked out some interesting things that the town had to offer. We went to the lighthouse, and at the beach by the light house there was a bunker that was built during world war 2 that was fascinating to see. I love history so it was nice to see something that was over 70 years still standing. I wore a thin sleeveless black shirt from H&M ($9.99) and blue high waisted shorts also from H&M. I decided to wear nude string sandals that I bought from Lulus for ($21.99). After the light house we went to Plum Beach farm, which was in the same town that lot of the local restaurants use their ingredients from. It was relaxing and nice to walk around the farm just looking at the chickens and pigs, and all the vegetables and fruits. After the farm I changed my outfit and wore shorts from h&m ($12.99) and a silk sleeveless shirt also from H&M ($17.99), which I actually got on discount for ($4.99) and some comfortable leather heels also from H&M ($39.99). We went to a beach called Sunset Beach; an amazing beach for watching sunsets. When we came back to the room I changed my shoes to black Vince Camuto shoes that I got from Macy's on sale last year ($39.99), and added a black blazer, which changed the whole outfit by giving me a more appropriate look for dinner at the Blue Pig Tavern. I had an amazing time in Cape May, and I will definitely come back. I highly  recommend the hotel and all the restaurants that I visited this weekend. 

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Beach Ready

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Memorial Day is right around the corner and I want you to be ready for that day. This post is about the essentials for a beach day. You cannot go without the right bathing suit, which is one of the main items you should have every summer. I chose the retro high waisted bikini because this bikini goes perfectly with any body type. It covers the right places and gives you a nice shape as well. It is a must have bathing suit this summer. I also decided to go with a crochet cover up. This piece is not a bathing suit cover up, but as I did you too can use any dress or kimono that you would like for the beach; because one can still have style on a beach day. I also purchased these great faux crisscross leather sandals; this style is very comfortable and it is a hit this summer so make sure you get yourself a pair. I got them in red to give this outfit a pop of color. It goes great with the white and beige color palette that I have going on in this picture. Finally, you can add the accessories like this straw hat to keep the sun's rays away from your beautiful face. Remember to always protect your skin from Sun damage.  Now of course you cannot go to the beach without sun glasses, and my favorite pair so far that go perfectly with my face is the aviator shades. I got these particular aviators from Ray-ban. YRemember, you should always try on different styles to see what suits you best. Most importantly, don't forget to have fun and take lots of pictures this upcoming Memorial Day weekend. Hashtag rumastyle so I can see your different looks.

Crisscross sandals, Crochet dress, Retro Bathing suit, and Hat are from Forever 21.

 

 

 

Uncaged

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Some say that the first time one should wear white is after Memorial day but I believe that you can wear white any time of the year as long as you wear it with confidence. To celebrate mother's day I decided to wear a shirt dress that I bought from H&M ($34.99). The material is of good quality and feels light. This outfit can be dressed up in the way that I am wearing it; with Anne Michelle nude heels that I happened to find in a thrift store ($12.99). This outfit can also be dressed down by wearing flats. And, on this special day I want to wish a very Happy Mother's Day to all the beautiful moms that are reading this post.

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Casual Sunday

In this post I decided to go for a casual look. I got inspired by the idea of a Sunday afternoon brunch with friends. Here I am wearing jeans ($29.99) and a T-shirt ($12.95) that I purchased from H&M. One day I went out thrift store shopping and found these nude sandals ($12) from Anne Michelle. Finally, I topped the look off with a leather jacket that I purchased  last year from H&M and also a clutch ($19.99) From Zara. It's great how easily you can make a casual jeans and a T-shirt look seem dressier simply by adding heels and a clutch.

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The cold weather in NYC has been very harsh on my skin. I am a person that normally doesn't like to wear too much makeup, and I have never really been on top of using facial products, but because we had extremely cold days this winter and I was out more taking many pictures than the norm I had to figure out something to keep my skin moisturized. As a result I decided to go to Sephora and ask the makeup specialist questions about what is good for my skin for moisture and also a foundation for my face that would feel very light on my skin. The makeup specialist was so helpful about it and got me these two products that I am in love with and I'm raving about. She recommended that I use the BB cream since I wanted something light that I can use daily that won't make me look like I have too much foundation on my face. It is a moisturizing tint, which it is good because it gives your face moisture especially if your face has been affected by the cold of winter. I would definitely recommend this product BB cream from Bobby Brown. Another purchase that I made was the Ultra Repair Face Moisturizer by First Aid Beauty. It is good for sensitive skin and it is very light when you apply it to the face. My face has been having some dry patches since it has been really cold and being around the heat and using hot water affected my face as well. From the moment I started using it I saw an instant change. My skin looked refreshed and not dry or oily. It was a perfect balance. These products were a great buy. Remember to always consult an expert when buying facial products.

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A Woman of Many Hats

Floppy Hat

Fedora Hat

Bowler Hat

This winter has been rather cruel with the endless cold and snow. One of the few positive aspects about this winter was being able to wear hats, and as a result I have been rather hat crazy this season. If you are like me then at times you have come across different types of hats and have wondered if buying one would be a good idea, or if wearing a hat would go well with your look. Today I challenge you to try something different. Find yourself a hat and take it home with you. Howard Walstein once said, "Do something uncomfortable today. By stepping out of your box, you don't have to settle for what you are; you get to create who you want to become." In order to take uncharacteristic risks in life we must force ourselves to come out of our comfort zones. It is only when we try new things that we can find out what is good or not good for us. There are different types of hats and these are three of my favorite styles thus far this winter: Floppy, Fedora and Bowler hats. Think of hats as an accessory; it adds just the right amount of touch and character to your outfit. Even if in the end the hat does not suit your style at least you took a risk and tried something out of the ordinary, and that goes a long way when attempting to step out of your comfort zone.

 

Click on the links to find more information on the hats:                                                                                 Floppy Hat: Blue color from Forever 21, Burgundy from Shopmyhats.com. Fedora Hat: Burgundy and blue from Forever21. Bowler Hat: Olive color by Forever 21

To Crop or Not to Crop? That is The Question!

This blog was inspired by a few conversations that I had with several friends regarding the use of crop tops. Crop tops have made a fashion comeback over the last  few years. Some people believe that crop tops should never be worn beyond a certain age; while others believe that age should not dictate what one should or should not wear. One friend shared with me that she does not wear crop tops because she believes that it is not appropriate for her age. She believed that it is more fitting for the younger crowd in their early twenties and younger. Another friend expressed that she will wear any outfit as long as she looks and feels good wearing it. There are many ways of wearing a crop top, and as in all cases with fashion it is based on preference. The key is to find a piece that is most comfortable for you. If you are a little shy about exposing too much skin, or are just generally more conservative in how you dress you have the option to wear the crop top in the same manner as seen in this shoot. I am wearing a crop top with a high waist skirt (or could be high waist pants as well). This style allows much of the stomach to be covered to maintain the more reserved and classy look, yet at the time adding elements of sexy to the overall look. I am usually not the type to show off too much stomach, but I love crop tops. I enjoy the fact that you are not able to see the shirt bulging out of your skirt, especially when wearing fitted skirts or pants. I also like the option of being able to show a little belly when I want to and create a slightly sexier look for an evening out. "Freedom is realizing you have a choice" (T.F. Hodge). The great thing about fashion, and in this particular case crop tops is the amount of options and flexibility a person can have with the same one outfit. As I always say, learn what works well for you and adjust your style accordingly.

 

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Fashion Made Simple

While doing this shoot I felt that for a moment I was taken back to a time where fashion seemed to be simpler: The late 1930s into the 1940s. There was not a lot of jewelry or extras in one's style. It seemed to cut right to the chase; nice, yet simple shoes, and an elegant clean cut dress. As I contemplated on the fashion I thought about how one's natural beauty would be the focal point more than the outfit itself. I love fashion at its simplest form. It is the little details that make a person stand out. In the same manner that this dress pops out in the midst of an urban landscape, (Meat Packing District) the color of this particular dress would make me stand out in a crowd of people. And, adding small touches of character such as a gold clutch and red lipstick help to set me apart in this shoot. You can choose to leave your outfit at its simplest as seen in this shoot, or depending on your personal taste you can add more accessories (necklace, bracelet, different color shoes, etc.). That is the beauty found in a simple dress; you can accessorize and give it a completely different twist. Paulo Coelho said it best when describing simplicity, "The simpler and more sober the posture the more beautiful it will be." Even though clothes and styles can be replicated what cannot be copied is you: your attitude, your flair, and your personality; these are solely displayed by you. Combining these wonderful attributes that you possess along with your outfit will then make your overall style unique. This will cause you to stand out as would a simple, yet beautiful peony in a valley of daffodils. 

By the way, this chic style would go perfectly for a night out with your Valentine.

Dress and Shoes by Zara, Clutch by H&M Photography by R&D Photography,                        Lip pencil by Nars

Nifty Shades of Brown

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It is funny how life comes full circle. This is so true of fashion. When I was 15 years old I loved the color brown; nearly all of my clothes and shoes were that color. One could say that I had a fascination with the color brown. As some time passed I lost interest in wearing anything brown. Perhaps subconsciously I had told myself that I had enough of it in my life so I decided to let it go and move on to other colors. Now that I am I older I have learned to include different colors; not giving one color more preference than another. With this particular photo shoot I had fun putting all these different shades of browns together. The colors complemented each other well, and adding a striped blue top to the outfit made it stand out even more. My advice to anyone playing with color schemes is to not be afraid of putting together different shades of the same color for fear of looking too "matchie." A person that is dear and close to my heart once expressed to me, "A possibility gone unexplored is a potentially wasted opportunity to deepen one's own growth." Learn what works and doesn't work for your style and look, which comes via trial and error. Start with the basics such as the neutral colors: black, brown, beige, white, blue, and gray; for you can never go wrong with these colors, and then add your pop of varied colors to draw the eyes in. Do not be afraid to take risks in life for one of our greatest teachers is experience.

Pants and Shoes by Zara  , Jacket by H&M, Shirt and Purse and Jewelry by Forever21                  Photography by R&D Photography